Mail Order bride associates with negative experiences to single Western males, scamming. To avoid scams, you would better likely to keep to the rules we set up. Of course, these are not the pattern rules, although below are mentioned some of them.

Beware if:

- your woman says she speaks English badly and attends the agency although her responses to your letters arrive too soon (women attending the agency can not reply that fast as it takes time to translate letters back and forth and usually takes minimum 2 days)

Let’s say you correspond with a woman from Russia (that has meaningful time difference with your biological clock) and after you sent her a letter in the morning you get a reply next evening (which is night in her country).

Taking this to an account the difference between the woman that attends the agency and a woman that uses personal computer at home is quite big. Do not hesitate to have a look at the world clock and see what time the message was created and compare to your local time.

There are quite a few agencies known for their sending letters all through the night in their country. This would look normal for a foreign man if it were a speed dating or online dating personals website that doesn’t deal with agencies. In case it’s a Russian or a Ukrainian company – this would be just impossible as women naturally would not attend the agency at 11 or 12 p.m.

- she calls you different names in her letters (this letter could have been composed by the agency, not the woman or letters can be addressed to anybody else);

A standard situation when the agency uses a template method of pre-arranged letters or a woman passes her letter in Russian to the agency translators and they just translate what they were given to translate (the woman made a mistake herself)

- if she says she’s lost her job and her father got ill and needs material support or costly medicine (a standard situation described by scam victims afterwards)

In such cases after men send money to their lady never see the lady or where the money has gone anymore. After meeting in person disregard this message.

- she says she loves you in letters (before even meeting you or seeing your photos)

Do not wonder if you will become disappointed in her change of attitude towards you when you come over to meet her. Do not doubt that you will see a dramatically huge difference between her letters and her natural personality. Do suppose it as a personal harassment from the lady as she probably tells this to everyone.

- she says she loves you so much that she will come over straight after you pay all her travel expenses (that helps or assistance will be produced for her by her friend or a kind woman from the next door or the non-existing company somebody once used services of)

She would say that she will have to collect some information about this and that she knows people who left for Australia and live happily ever after, that this is possible to get a visa and tickets WHILE IT IS NOT!

Be sure that money can’t buy love and understanding but if you have made up your mind to marry a Russian or Ukrainian bride, it would be less risky to come over and see it all with your own eyes.

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